Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Twitter Current Theory™


(Brace yourselves, people. This is a long one. But stay with me.)

I talk about running a lot on this site. I think I do so because it's a huge part of who I am. Many things in our lives begin with a single choice of action. In this case, it all started with one stride. I remember that stride clearly. I was nineteen and frustrated with too much thought and too little action. And that stride, though wholly unrelated to all the plans in my head, was an action. And I've never stopped. I think of how different my life would be now had I never stepped onto the road that day. I think about the miles I've covered, all over the world. I run wherever I go. It's often how I introduce myself to a new place. I unpack my suitcase, put on my shoes, step out of the hotel, look both ways, and just start going wherever my feet lead me. It's taught me so much. Endurance. Distinguishing which pain you should push through and which pain means you should stop. It's taught me when it's safe to wander off and when it's time to stay on the beaten path. But mostly, it's taught me that action is the only conduit for thought. Before I ran, I had perfect theories, all trapped in my head. Running taught me that an unsuccessfully applied theory that has moving legs under it can become anything, including more successful than you ever imagined, if you just keep it moving forward.

And now, much to my surprise, I'm talking about Twitter the same way. I was tempted to replace the word "Twitter" with the more inclusive "Social Media." But I can't bring myself to do it. Why? Because it's not true for me. No other form of social media has had agency in my life like Twitter. It's such a funny word, isn't it? Twitter. Say it with me. Twitter. And I can assure you that a cynic like myself has not missed the irony of speaking about such a silly word in such grandiose, romanticized language. But it's genuine—I can assure you. Doubting Thomas becomes a believer.

Twitter is linear. And therefore, like running, it encourages forward motion. Nay, it insists upon forward motion. No loitering allowed. Grab your hat and hold on tight. No time for 'but what if' or 'let me just think about this for awhile.' And that dynamic is excellent for training yourself to be decisive. Shoot from your hip. Make a mistake, post something stupid (not that I ever have), it's gone before you can come to a full blush. Ironically, the fast pace forward makes the present moment, the right here, right now become very vivid and powerful.

Sometimes in order to understand an intangible, I close my eyes, think about that thing, and watch to see which familiar images come to my mind. With Twitter, I think of a fast current. A river driving hard and deep. But you have to jump in fully for it to do its magic. You have to engage. And let's face it, engaging means leaving Doubting Thomas behind. It means making yourself vulnerable to rejection. Chris Reed, of the phenomenal team at Talent Revolution boldly says, it means "doing any number of other things that actually require signing in and proclaiming your existence." Or as John Haydon bravely says on his (professional) site, "Let’s be honest, we all have some fear about opening up and being ourselves - especially when we’re going through an emotional shitstorm. Like I just did. . . But this is who I am." Provocative? I think so. It's such a rush to finally say, this is who I am. Take me or leave me. Say that out loud just once. Take me or leave me. I guarantee your shoulders will raise a full inch. You'll sit up straighter. Chin raised.

As with running, I clearly remember standing at the edge of the Twitter stream, feeling the pull of the current, and somehow intuiting that it would soon take me on a wild ride, forcing me to spend less time reflecting and more time just getting myself moving and "out there." My very first tweet: "Have just thrown all my balls into the air." I typed the words, and pressed the button: Update. @Ev, if you're reading this, I think you should change the button to read: Engage.

Lately all I read about social media tries to privilege one site over another. It's taken on its own partisanship. An us versus them. But I wonder why? This IS social media, people. I assume it derives its name from its human element. So why in God's green earth would we assume that one site fits all? People are, dare I say it, different. And I personally love that these sites have become weeders, filters of sorts, that funnel like-minded people with common goals into places where they can more efficiently communicate and achieve said goals. I am at a point in my life where I want fast and furious forward movement. It's not that I dislike Facebook, connecting with people from my past, or finding random pictures of myself from high school being passed around (thanks for that, btw). It's just that I'm not "there" right now. I have too much more road to cover before I sit back and reflect. My rocking chair will wait—my dreams will not.


Charlie Wollborg, Chief Troublemaker of Curve Detroit@CharlieCurve, a very savvy dude on Twitter, said it best, "Facebook reconnects your past. Linkedin connects you to your present. Twitter connects you with your future."

I dig that breakdown. And though I can't speak for him, I'm comfortable with the fact that different people choose to "be" in different places, at different times, for different reasons. That's fine. And I genuinely hope they allow me the same choices.

I've been on Twitter, as what I call a full-timer, for two months. When people ask me what Twitter is, I say it's a driving pulse of people who are game. People who wake up every morning and say, BRING IT. People who not only get what I mean when I say I'm an "expert at shenanigans," but are pushing me hard toward making it a paid gig. It's the feeling you get at the end of a hard race, where complete strangers are running beside you and cheering you on—but it's constant. It's thousands of 140-character injections of powerful endorphins.

I've been noticing lately how many people on Twitter are endurance athletes, dancers, skiiers, hikers. Especially runners. All people who like to move—and quickly. And when you get us all together (grin spreading across my face as I type), look out, world. Cuz we're bringing it.

The more you engage on Twitter, the further down the bank you wade, the faster and more powerful the current gets. And I have a Twitter Current Theory™, that somehow it takes you where you're supposed to be, and to those with whom, in all this wide world, you share unnervingly common ground.

Just look at who I get to begin and end each day with. Each post alone may not seem like enough to cause the power of movement I've described above, but put them together and let them wash over you daily, again and again, and they'll carry you away to places you've only been thinking about going, for way too long. Jump in. Engage. And we'll catch you. I promise.


JPeterman If you haven't stayed in touch with your dreams, the good news is that it's never too late to reclaim them.



fleurdeleigh Chasing my to-do list around the house with a lasso. It's mine!



unmarketing I have met more incredible, caring and smart ppl on Twitter, than all other online/offline places combined.




SarahRobinson Good morning everyone! Bizy day corralling this maverick life I lead - yikes! Hope you all are setting your intentions for a GREAT one.:)



RedHotCopy (to) @marieforleo You rock, Marie! Was getting overwhelmed & remembered what u taught me bout living in the moment. Ahhhh. #tweepletuesday



mistressmia (to) @redhotcopy you have inspired some mistress mia mischief. can't wait to tell you all about it.



shannonpaul Tomorrow afternoon I'm crashing the New Media Bootcamp in Austin. Let's see if @justinlevy and @chrisbrogan try to stop me. ;-)



balemar (to) @missive Dude, I'm so pumped! :)




MelindaLouise never grew out of the "so excited I can't sit still" phase.



marieforleo (to) @SarahRobinson @MissIve Hey Ladies! Do I need to get in here & start spankin?? Shenanigans r 100% necessary for biz success :)


sandygrason Stop. Breathe. Reconnect. Ask: "What 1 thing can I do today that will have the greatest impact on my life/business?" Go do it.






michelle7814 (to) @MissIve Advice: Go to bed. Set alarm for 4 am and walk straight to dining room with Sharpie. Do not brush teeth. Do not Twitter. It works.



riasharon Hey, that's my strategy!!! :) RT @sethsimonds Don't be afraid to tell somebody you love them if you really do...


And my very favorite Tweet of all time . . . because it gets right to the heart of can do and decisiveness.


c_reed (to) @MissIve Yes.

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

Truly Great!!!

Drew

Rick Butts said...

This is an exceptionally frisky blog - and you have my attention.

http://mistressmia.com turned me on to your post today - so I KNOW you are on the edge!

Carry on - but please know that I am keeping an eye on ya.

Rick

Anonymous said...

I read parts of this out loud so others in this room would hear them. I think I would like to swim in streams more like those.

Anonymous said...

okay DUDE. I have chills, I have tears, this was an AMAAAZING post! You are such a Rock Star! do you get that? do you know that?
YOU ROCK.
xooxxo
Sandy

Miss Ive said...

All,

I really, genuinely appreciate the notes. The current just keeps getting stronger.

Love it.

John Haydon said...

We met after I posted that shit storm comment!

Anonymous said...

Awesome, but I wouldn't expect anything less. You "bring it" everytime Ive.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for sharing this; I have been watching you and engaging with you on twitter; the PS addiction and twitter til late (painfully late). I'm newer than you on the lil bird ride, and already discovering new commonalities we share and am quite certain there are more :) I came to search for your real name, but it's not important, this post however, has been and will be. Life Sandy, yes, a bit moving this was. thank you,

jana

Reed said...

Jen,

You said, “Running taught me that an unsuccessfully applied theory that has moving legs under it can become anything, including more successful than you ever imagined, if you just keep it moving forward.” So incredibly true.

By the way, I’m totally going to hijack your description of Twitter for use whenever the uninitiated inquire. Full credit given to the original author, of course.

So grateful to be swept away in your Current,

Chris, otherwise known as @c_reed

Anonymous said...

Sometimes the constant activity of Twitter overwhelms me...thank you for inspiring me to see the awesomeness of the "Twitter Current."

And yes, I do I have Twitter to thank for new friends in a new town (just moved to Kentucky from Portland, OR), a brand spanking new job in less than a few weeks of searching, and connecting to JPeterman and beautiful folks like you. ;)

Anonymous said...

Awesome post! Very authentic... already posted it to Twitter & Posterous (link love never hurt anyone, no? :).

Two very minor, though possibly useful logistical things to consider:

1) Please, please, use more whitespace, makes posts A LOT more readable (3-5 lines per paragraph max. seems to be ideal)

2) The way your Twitter sidebar embed is worded, it can lead to confusion, e.g. : "When Miss Ive isn't digging sand out of her swimsuit, she is... @SarahRobinson"

Cheers!

Ms. SIngle Mama said...

This is an amazing post.

Absolutely amazing. Love the current theory and the comparison of Twitter to running, to just diving in.

I also love the Facebook = the past. I'm not sure if you've seen this but please visit - it's a post a I wrote for Twitter Virgins a while ago (I'm also a die hard Twitter evangelist).

http://www.twirgin.com

Having not even read your post I too explained that the biggest diff b/n Facebook and Twitter is that Twitter connects you with like-minded people. You find each other.

Just as I found you... through Twitter.

Awesome.

Amanda Hite said...

It's after 8, I've been up since 5, ran for about 40 mins and have been lost on this blog for the rest of the time. if you write more often i could make this more of a routine